Let’s talk a little about anal. There is still so much taboo around the butt and anal sex. Anal sex, when done consciously, provides incredible spine tingling orgasms. it’s extremely fulfilling and can send you to a direct cosmic bliss space.
In the De-Armouring and Sexological Bodywork sessions we will focus on releasing tension vaginally or in the penis. This to produce greater sensation and to clear blocks to orgasm. But, if your butt / anus is tight and holding tension, this will impact the tension inside your vagina and penis. We simply can’t ignore the butt.
Relax and breath. we go slowly, step by step.
Upon exploration, you may notice your anus feels a bit stingy at the entrance or at the sphincters rings.
Use your breath, and a finger or an anal dildo, loads of oil, lubricants to gently massage out the tension.
A relaxed anus and butt is the key for the multi orgasmic journey.
Anatomically, our muscles, bones, small nerves terminations, base of the penis, perineum, anal canal, coccyx and even cervix are all squeezed around our pelvis.
relaxing the anus allows to relax the entire area, giving more space for blood, fluids and energy to flow easily towards all directions .
So… you may experience emotional release. Imagine how much shame is stored in the butt. You may experience a lot of pleasure and it can be disturbing.
From poo phobia, homophobia and a general shaming words around the butt being a dirty place. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
The butt is just another part of your beautiful body to be worshipped and adored. You may be surprised at how much you’re holding.
You may also be surprised to discover and confront old shame. There is nothing shameful or dirty about your butt.
I come from a culture where there’s less shame regarding anal exploration. This doesn’t mean no taboo neither meaningful interactions.
It took me a while and some anal meditations to consciously embrace the pleasures of anal in a extremely relaxed manner. with or without a partner.
it’s just another way to understand the many dimensions of orgasm, sensation and pleasure. Make sure you use lube, never use the same dildo in your vagina after anal exploration and go slow! (A little dip in with your finger sliding with natural soap in the shower can be a good place to start).