Private Coaching

For couples & individuals

Do you want to experience real physical pleasure in a deeply satisfying way?

BODYPLEASE PRIVATE COACHING for couples and individuals is a 3 step program that trains your nervous system to feel more pleasure, ask for the touch you truly want, and sustain the good sensations as much as you wish to.
1-Step One:

This crucial step is all about training your nervous system to allow you to feel more sensations in your skin and body. As you become more aware of these sensations, you will be able to identify specific areas of pleasure that you may not have noticed before. 

2-Step Two:
This isn’t only a bunch of techniques.
Learn how to create and refine your own way of touch enhancing its qualities. You can become much more comfortable asking for it out loud, even if it seems a little scary.
3-Step three:
Imagine pleasure as a never-ending flow. Feel your body in MUCH more detail. You create your flow and decide when it’s time to stop.

Ever Felt Intimacy Awkwardness?
Lonely Even With a Partner?

Many people now seek pleasure education due to our disconnection from our bodies caused by excessive screen time. Common issues like cold relationships, feeling unseen or unsafe, and sexual dysfunctions have various causes. What’s important is improving your sensations, regardless of screen time, your personal situation, or your partner choices.

Learn how to turn challenging times into pleasurable experiences through nervous system training. Improve intimacy, communication, and pleasure skills while addressing sexual dysfunctions caused by emotional overload or excessive use of screens or porn. 

Eventually, as a common side effect, you will get rid of many sexual blockages such as erectile dysfunction, ejaculation blockages, pain during intercourse, desire problems, and difficulty experiencing orgasms.

THE BODYPLEASE PRIVATE COACHING is perfect for anyone who wants to level up, expand their knowledge about their sexuality, more joy, more aliveness, more sensations, more pleasure, deliciousness…orgasmic choices and unleash their body’s erotic potential.
Sounds exciting, right?

Experience more connection, vibrancy, playfulness, and emotional safety. Live a more authentic and orgasmic life today, from home!

This Private online coaching helps you explore your sexual desires and limits in the privacy of your own home. Through somatic sexology, you can discover your authentic desires, pleasure potential, and develop the skills to sustain it.
You can even try it out without any nudity or genital touching.

BODYPLEASE PRIVATE COACHING is the first program of its kind offered online, developed by Cristiana Bolli, Somatic sexologist & Swiss ambassador of the Somatic Consent System, the World’s #1 Nervous System-based Pleasure training.


The session involves a 10-15 minute talk and body explorations that awaken your sensuality and prepare your nervous system for more pleasure. You’ll learn how to practice on yourself and improve your movement, sound, breathing, touch, vibrations, and music.

In just ONE session, you’ll feel more empowered and in touch with your pleasure anatomy. Typically, 5 to 10 sessions are recommended to break free from limiting beliefs, take you far from the ready made scripts.


Sessions are exclusive, inclusive, non- discriminatory and culturally sensitive.

Member of  the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers worldwide and Somatic Sexology Institute of Latin America
Somatic Consent Engagement System Ambassador for Switzerland

Cristiana Bolli Freitas

How It Works

How long does a session last?

-Typically all my sessions lasts between two and three hours and includes a counseling discussion, bodywork and integration phase.
-Orgasmic Breathwork sessions or PranaSanna NTB breathwork sessions is 60 min.

Longer sessions are available on request. 

About LGBTIQ+, gender & sexual choices, erotic identities

Sexual pleasure is a birth right. I am committed to and with people wnating to take their pleasure and sexuality seriously. I’m specially concerned by LGBTIQ+ life .

Strengthened by my field experiences and by my ethical commitments, engagements towards an ethical code by the american and latino american somatic sexology institutes,  I offer non-judgmental, respectful, caring and qualified welcome and spaces for people of sexual and erotic diversity and gender plurality. I also give somatic support to trans friends and families. Expressing our birth right isn’t alwasy easy and many of us may encounter internal or external pressures and discordances that can put them in crisis. Getting support, as a parent couple or as a family, allows to find a better balance.

I have no trauma, no issues, just want to become more orgasmic. Can I come?

You’re welcome exactly as you are. Usually when joining the pleasure process people go out of their comfort zone and explore unknown zones. It feels safe to be guided. If needed you know you have the support to be held. 

What do I need to be naked during a session?

-You can come as you are. If you are more comfortable fully clothed, this is no problem. Most sessions are conducted with partial clothing,  undergarments or naked.

Do I need a penis De-Armouring? What is this?

The penis is the most vulnerable body part of a body, and due to shame, guilt, ridicule, and bullying, it collects and holds stress and tension, contracts, sometimes shrinks in size and  the flow of power can reduce. This affects your emotions, your mindset and desires. Keeping up with everything and performing in order to please with the hope of getting some pleasure ….is a straight road for building a strong armour that will day by day distance you from your authentic pleasure roads. No matter which road you choose.

below a  few consequences of an armored penis:
-Pain, blue balls,
-incapacity of ejaculating with a lover,
-overall insensitive or high sensitive,
-premature ejaculation, 
-rubbing harder and longer in order to ejaculate, retarded ejaculation
-not feeling satisfied with sexual intercourse,
-having to concentrate quite a lot in order to orgasm
-blaming your partners, your life for not being satisfied
-feeling anger towards partners and inability to feel intimate, create deeper connections
-immense frustrations or needy behaviour
-auto sabotage and resistance to absolutely any proposal related to the personal sexual behaviour.


BENEFITS of penis de-armouring include:

– keeping your penis hard, alive, sensitive and potent
_Increases the sensitive and sensations in the sexual organs or in other parts of the body
-Your body feels that pleasure can be effortless and you will experiment different states of pleasure expansion
-increasing your confidence as a lover and a erotic being
-helping you with different types of sexual dysfunctions
-Sexual and erotic fulfilment
– increasing the size of your penis ( blood circulation)
-You learn to express and ask for what you really enjoy and want, instead of what society or friends have showed you should like 
-Less and less addicted behaviors towards orgasms 
-Mindset change and HUGE pleasure expansion, More orgasms, including feeling full body orgasms 

This process is vital for ALL individuals with a penis and is recommended to be  done from time to time as a regular practise to make sure the energy flow is abundant. You can learn how to practice on your own self , teach partners to do it on you.


Do I need a vagina De-Armouring?

Each time you experience emotional or physical pain, armour is created in the body, in order to protect you from feeling pain, from suffering. It also protects you from feeling more pleasure, love, self confidence. The stored emotions and armours affects all present and future relationships.

Usually we stock our pain/emotions in our most deepest spaces: our orifices and vital organs.

Symptoms of an armoured yoni ( vagina) include:

– Hard tissue along the walls of the yoni
– Small grain-like lumps
– Numb areas or total numbness
– Dryness
– Contracted and hard inner muscles
– Over sensitive cervix
– Pain during love-making
– Inability to experience deep yoni orgasms, or G-spot and full body orgasms
-No orgasms at all
-A need to rub your clit hard (as the only way for you to climax).


– soft, velvety, juicy
– sensitive
able to feel deeper pleasure all over your body
-no more pain during sex
-deep internal orgasms
-less infections
-relaxed clitoris hook
-feeling empowered
-more feminine 



Do you work with chronic illness, sexual pathologies or injuries?

-I do. However, if you have a strong condition, it’s best we arrange a Zoom/ video call consultation prior to scheduling a session.

why people employ sexological bodywork

• Difficulties in becoming aroused
• Lack of sex drive
• Orgasm training
• Erectile dysfunction
• Premature ejaculation
• Pain during intercourse
• General physical blocks or pain
• Regaining sexual function and the ability to feel pleasure
– after birth
– after surgery
• Understanding anal health and genital pleasure
• Couples interested in enhancing their sex life
• Wishing to learn how to give and accept sensuality and touch
• Self-acceptance of one’s own body and gender
• Learning to accept and love sexuality

How many sessions can I have? Do you offer follow up sessions?

-If time and availability permits 3-5 sessions is ideal to start. You can receive up to a 4 hour long session in one day. Usually  my clients choose a 5 session pack followed by a second one. The minimum amount of time between the sessions is 5 days. I can also offer skype and zoom sessions online.

Can I come only for an intimate massage? Are you naked during the sessions?

I offer Tantra energy & intimate body massage, Taoist genital massage, pleasure mapping, external and internal anus massage, genital De-armouring, internal throat De-armouring and different kind of yoni and Lingam massages for women, men, all gender and couples.  If you’re new to this work, you need first to commit with 3 to 5 sessions prior any intimate session. This is needed to release tension and emotions as well as to activate your body to reach expansion. It isn’t about getting a passive massage. It’s about an evolving process towards self empowerment, infinite pleasure, bliss and deep connection to yourself. And…No. I’m not naked during sessions.

What is the cancellation policy?

 You may cancel your session(s) up to 3 days prior to the scheduled date(s) for a full refund less any credit card or Paypal processing fees if applied. In some cases, the room rental fees are hourly and non-refundable. This will also be deducted, if this is the case.

Cancellations less than 2 days ( 48 full hours) to your session(s) are non-refundable. You may re-schedule or transfer the scheduled session onto a friend up to 48 hours prior by emailing In this case, full contact details must be provided. In case you do not re-schedule, neither transfer to a friend, cancellations will be fully charged.